It is one thing to not have someone love you back and then another to watch the same person get married to someone else because there is absolutely nothing you can do to make that person change his or her mind. It is also depressing after a while when you watch person after person get married and it is somehow just not one of the people who can give out wedding invitations. I have watched everyone of my 'potentials' get married and it did not take me long to figure out what the 'problem' was/ is. When we are growing up we think we know what love is. The terms 'puppy love', 'high school romance', 'school sweetheart' are not uncommon. They mean certain things because they denote a phase that is quite unforgettable, talk about 'first love'. And that phase (s) stays with us. We hold on to the memories because it gave us a high and then brought us down immediately after the 'relationship' or the bond did not work out. Why are we seekin...

Feminine spirit needs slowness and kindness, especially to self. However, in today's culture we find two main words circling the market- a. hustle and b. dating and these two words have driven women to be extremely critical with themselves. Women are pushing themselves to compete with men in random ways, being over stimulated and engaged in stuff that make them hyperventilate time to time. They find themselves pulled in all directions, ALL,  and then there is no energy left to put into themselves, which is extremely important for mental well- being. Core values like softness is lost because now everyone wants to be like what a certain 'lifestyle' is being pushed in the social media algorithm. In 2005, or the late 90s, we did not have half the things to be concerned with like we do now. We did not have the accessibility like we do now, Instagram was still an app where one uploaded videos and not a place where controversial takes pulled your attention, made you agitated and y...